Sarah Bickers (Free Your Space), an experienced APDO member working across South East London, is passionate about helping her clients simplify their lives. Whether you celebrate Christmas or not, the holiday season can feel more tense than tranquil. If this sounds familiar, read Sarah’s guest blog below…
At this time of year, we’re under a lot of pressure to put on the “Perfect Christmas”; TV ads and magazines are full of this year’s Christmas tree and table-dressing trends… Not to mention a fortnight of planning seasonal feasts. On top of that you have to find the perfect gift for everyone, which then has to be beautifully wrapped with tasteful paper and ribbon.
All the festive craziness is enough to make anyone look forward to January; even if the New Year heralds the dreaded post-Christmas diet and exercise plan.
Our own expectations can add to the pressure. My mother did a wonderful Christmas, but I struggled to maintain her traditions whilst working full-time. Adjusting expectations was essential to avoid slaving away to preserve a Christmas I was too busy to really enjoy.
Home-made sweets had to go, but traditions that we love and continue include the turkey dinner and stockings for everyone (yes, even for the adults). We have also started some new traditions; so for us, Christmas really begins when we snuggle up as a family and watch ‘The Muppet Christmas Carol’.
Let’s just stop for a moment, and take a deep breath… We don’t have to jump headfirst into the festive chaos. It’s worth taking a little time to talk with your family or friends to focus on what you all really enjoy about Christmas. When our family first did this, we were surprised to hear that rather than getting presents, what our children really loved was opening stockings together and having lots of family time.
So, how could we approach our Christmas plans differently? Working with clients, my approach to de-cluttering is: ‘Less in; More out; Organise’, so this means:
Lastly, keep reminding yourself that the reason for all your efforts is to make your Christmas special to you and your loved ones.
APDO would like to wish all readers, clients, colleagues and friends a wonderful holiday season and a very happy, healthy and successful 2018!